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3rd Cousin - San Francisco

Restaurant 3rd Cousin in San Francisco
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3rd Cousin at a glance
San Francisco Bernal Heights
$$$
Price per Person $91–$100
mentioned by 74 of the guests
#1631 out of 2403 places to eat in San Francisco
#204 Restaurant out of 254 in San Francisco
Good
7 out of 10
7.2
Food
7.7
Service
7.3
Ambience
3.5
Value
671

Reviews

66%

Satisfaction

Often praised
  • Creative food
  • Attentive service
  • Cozy ambiance
Frequently criticized
  • High price
  • Crowded space
  • Slow service

The restaurant 3rd Cousin in San Francisco’s charming Bernal Heights neighborhood invites you to a truly memorable dining experience. You’ll discover a trendy and romantic atmosphere perfect for an evening out.

Known for its exceptional culinary creations, this spot truly shines with its great dessert offerings, ensuring a sweet end to your meal. Whether you’re seeking a special occasion or a delightful dinner, you’ll find yourself immersed in a welcoming ambiance.

Overview: Introducting 3rd Cousin

3rd Cousin offers a dining experience where the culinary creativity of Chef Greg often shines, particularly with certain dishes that leave a lasting impression. Guests frequently commend the attentive service and the inviting atmosphere, making it a pleasant spot for special occasions.

However, some find the overall food quality inconsistent, occasionally falling short of expectations. While the restaurant aims for a refined setting, the ambience can sometimes feel a bit crowded space, impacting comfort.

The price point, coupled with additional mandatory fees, is a recurring concern for many, leading to questions about the overall value despite the positive aspects of the experience.

Good
7 out of 10
671

Reviews

66%

Satisfaction

182

negative

46

neutral

443

positive

3rd Cousin earns a solid 7 for its overall performance, indicating a generally good experience. However, customer sentiment is a bit more mixed, with 66% satisfaction.

This suggests that while many patrons leave pleased, a notable portion has reservations. This assessment is drawn from a substantial 671 customer observations, with 443 positive remarks balanced against 182 negative ones.

Delving into specifics, the Service (7.7) stands out as a strong point, often praised for attentiveness. The Ambience (7.3) also contributes positively, creating an inviting setting.

While the Food (7.2) generally receives good marks, it’s the Value (3.5) that significantly pulls down the overall perception, frequently cited as a major concern due to pricing and additional fees.

What people like
  • Creative, delicious food
  • Attentive, friendly service
  • Inviting, cozy ambiance
What people don't like
  • High price, extra fees
  • Crowded, noisy ambiance
  • Slow, uncoordinated service

With a 7.1 recommendation score, 3rd Cousin is a place worth considering, especially if you prioritize a creative culinary journey and attentive service in a pleasant setting. It shines for special occasions where the overall experience can outweigh cost concerns.

However, be prepared for a potentially high bill and a sometimes bustling atmosphere. If value is your primary concern or you prefer a quieter, more spacious dining room, you might find aspects of the experience less satisfying.

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Verdict: Our expert take on 3rd Cousin

Food (7.2 out of 10)

mentioned by 99% of the guests

When it comes to the food, this spot offers a good experience overall, with a score of 7.2. Many diners raved about the incredible flavors and textures, especially highlighting the unique uni crÚme brûlée and well-executed tasting menus. With 300 positive remarks out of 437 total, it seems there's plenty to enjoy, from delicious pastas to perfectly cooked wagyu.

However, customer satisfaction sits at a more mixed 68.6%, indicating some areas for improvement. A number of the 107 negative comments pointed to issues like bland ravioli, disappointing lobster risotto, and underwhelming vegan tasting menus, with some dishes lacking flavor or having small portions. It seems consistency can be a bit of a challenge.

7.2 Food

437

Reviews

68%

Satisfaction

107

negative

30

neutral

300

positive

Rating distribution
What people like
  • Uni crĂšme brĂ»lĂ©e
  • Creative tasting menus
  • Excellent flavors
What people don't like
  • Lacking flavor
  • Bland vegan options
  • Small portions

Often praised

  • food
  • uni creme brulee
  • dishes
  • wine pairing
  • desserts
  • lobster risotto
  • uni crĂšme brĂ»lĂ©e
  • delicious food
  • tasting menu
  • ravioli

Frequently criticized

  • food
  • dessert
  • desserts
  • duck breast
  • pasta dish
  • risotto
  • focaccia
  • lamb
  • lobster risotto
  • meal

If youre looking for creative dishes and dont mind a few hit-or-miss moments, especially with their signature uni crÚme brûlée, it's worth a try. However, be mindful of some reports of blandness or small portions, particularly with certain pasta dishes or vegan options.

Service (7.7 out of 10)

mentioned by 78% of the guests

When it comes to service, this spot generally hits the mark! With a solid score of 7.7 and customer satisfaction at 71.7%, many guests rave about the friendly and attentive staff. Out of 113 comments, 81 specifically praised the excellent service, knowledgeable servers like Oceano, and how welcomed they felt, often highlighting Chef Greg's personal touch.

However, not every experience was perfect, with 24 comments pointing to areas for improvement. Some guests noted issues like long waiting times for tables, feeling rushed, or inconsistent service coordination. A few also mentioned concerns about server attire not matching the ambiance or stingy wine pours, suggesting occasional understaffing.

7.7 Service

113

Reviews

71%

Satisfaction

24

negative

8

neutral

81

positive

Rating distribution
What people like
  • Friendly, attentive staff
  • Knowledgeable servers
  • Chef's personal touch
What people don't like
  • Long waiting times
  • Inconsistent service
  • Unprofessional attire

Often praised

  • service
  • staff
  • Service
  • servers
  • server
  • server Oceano
  • Chef Greg
  • Chef/proprietor, Greg
  • GF accommodation
  • Superb service

Frequently criticized

  • service
  • server attire
  • chef
  • disappointed
  • extras
  • gap between appetizer and entree
  • refill glasses
  • reservation
  • service coordination
  • staff

Overall, the service here is generally good, making for a welcoming and attentive dining experience. While most guests leave happy, be prepared for potential waits or occasional inconsistencies, especially during busy times. If you value friendly, knowledgeable staff and a personal touch, it's definitely worth a visit!

Ambience (7.3 out of 10)

mentioned by 53% of the guests

The ambiance here really shines, earning a good 7.3 score and a good 73.7% customer satisfaction! Many guests, 56 to be exact, rave about the inviting vibe and atmosphere. They love the gorgeous decor, cozy feel, and the music that sets a great mood, often being quiet enough for conversation.

However, some diners (17 of them) found the seating density to be an issue. Descriptions like crowded space and elbow to elbow suggest tables are too close, leading to a noise level that can make conversation difficult. It seems the intimate setting can sometimes feel a bit too snug.

7.3 Ambience

76

Reviews

73%

Satisfaction

17

negative

3

neutral

56

positive

Rating distribution
What people like
  • Inviting atmosphere
  • Gorgeous decor
  • Cozy feel
What people don't like
  • Crowded space
  • Tight seating
  • Loud noise level

Often praised

  • atmosphere
  • music
  • Atmosphere
  • ambiance
  • experience
  • restaurant
  • vibe
  • Ambiance
  • birthday experience
  • celebrations

Frequently criticized

  • table
  • seating
  • tables
  • accessibility
  • atmosphere
  • community dining
  • crowded space
  • elbow to elbow
  • finish and leave
  • noise level

If you're seeking a restaurant with a warm, inviting atmosphere, great music, and a cozy feel, this place is definitely worth a visit. Just be prepared that during peak times, the intimate setting might feel a bit crowded, potentially impacting the noise level and comfort.

Value (3.5 out of 10)

mentioned by 34% of the guests

When it comes to value, this spot scores a rather poor 3.5, with customer satisfaction also landing at a low 13.3%. This suggests that many diners felt they werent getting their moneys worth, a sentiment echoed in the 45 total opinions, where a significant 34 leaned negative compared to just 6 positive remarks. Despite the overall sentiment, some diners found good value, especially during Restaurant week or with the weekday tasting menu.

The basic wine pairing was also noted as surprisingly inexpensive and high quality. For those who hit it right, the price felt justified for the quality, making it a worthwhile experience. However, the majority of feedback points to significant concerns about price and extra charges.

Many felt the experience was over priced for the quality and portion sizes, with mandatory gratuity and various service fee additions leading to unexpectedly high bills. These hidden costs often left guests feeling disappointed.

3.5 Value

45

Reviews

13%

Satisfaction

34

negative

5

neutral

6

positive

Rating distribution
What people like
  • Restaurant week value
  • Weekday tasting menu
  • Affordable wine pairing
What people don't like
  • Overpriced for quality
  • Excessive hidden fees
  • Mandatory gratuity

Often praised

  • Restaurant week
  • basic wine pairing
  • cost to worth it rating
  • expensive meal
  • price
  • weekday tasting menu

Frequently criticized

  • price
  • mandatory gratuity
  • price point
  • service fee
  • Mandate fee
  • SF Mandate
  • SF mandates
  • bill
  • black truffles
  • extra charges

If youre considering a visit, be very mindful of the pricing structure and potential extra fees. While special events like restaurant week or specific tasting menus might offer decent value, be prepared for a potentially high bill and scrutinize the menu for hidden costs. It might be worth it for a specific, well-researched deal, but otherwise, you could find yourself feeling its overpriced.

How are the prices at 3rd Cousin?

On average, you’ll spend around 98 per person – based on 74 guests. That places this restaurant in the $91–$100 category. For a Restaurant in San Francisco, that’s definitely on the higher-end.

Interestingly, while the average is 98, a significant number of diners actually spend 101 $ or more, indicating a premium experience for many.

This chart shows what people usually spend per person, using the 74 most recent reviews.

Heres how this restaurants value for money stacks up against similar spots in San Francisco.

Considering the premium pricing, especially with many guests spending over 101 $, wed say this restaurant aims for a high-end dining experience. If youre looking for a splurge, it seems to deliver on that front.

Customer Reviews: what people think about 3rd Cousin

Price per Person
  • $100+
Visit Type
  • Special Occasion
Group Type
  • Couple
Group Size
  • Couple
Service Type
  • Dine-in
Meal Type
  • Dinner
Wait Time
  • Immediate (0–5 min.)
Noise Level
  • Moderate
Andrew D.
Review date: 10/25/2025
3
Vegan Tasting Menu Disappointing for the Price
My wife treated me to a birthday celebration at this restaurant, and while the staff were kind and engaging, and the service was great, the food was generally lackluster to not good. I appreciate restaurants offering vegan options, but for nearly $200 per person, the tasting menu fell far short of my hopes and expectations. The courses were mostly vegetables without much seasoning. One dish featured beans, radishes, zucchini, and mushrooms, all cooked until their flavors were faint, with a vegan dashi that tasted only of salt. An heirloom tomato, fig, and balsamic vinaigrette was pleasant, though the tomatoes lacked flavor, and the vegan option was simply the vegetarian dish without cheese. The main course consisted of a single fig, three Brussels sprouts without discernible sauce, a nicely cooked piece of tofu with a faint teriyaki taste, and a small amount of a pleasant date and tamarind sauce. The most flavorful dish was pasta with broccolini, but it was overwhelmed by tahini, giving the pasta a texture like creamy peanut butter and an overpowering sesame taste. The dessert was the only truly bad dish: while the vegetarian option was a nicely plated panna cotta, the vegan choice was a single scoop of freezer-burnt chocolate almond milk ice cream, with noticeable ice crystals and a stronger almond milk flavor than chocolate. I did not finish it. The best dish was the initial salad with an interesting basil vinaigrette. I mentioned my underwhelm to the server, who was gracious and comped a juice, but I would have preferred better food at full price. My impression is that the vegan menu was developed by subtracting ingredients from other menus rather than building a plant-based option from scratch. At a price point nearly double that of Dirt Candy, this review felt merited. For those seeking a special occasion restaurant with vegan options at a lower price point, I recommend Besharam, Aiso, Cha Ya, Shizen, and Greens. I hope 3rd Cousin reconsiders their vegan menu, as everything but the food was wonderful.
  • staff9
  • service9
  • heirloom tomato, fig, and balsamic vinaigrette6
  • food3
  • vegan tasting menu3
  • vegetables3
Price per Person
  • $100+
Visit Type
  • Food Exploration
Group Type
  • Couple
Group Size
  • Couple
Service Type
  • Dine-in
Wait Time
  • Short (6–15 min.)
Noise Level
  • Loud
Doug L.
Review date: 10/09/2025
6
Creative Food, Outrageous Pricing and Crowded Space
My experience at this restaurant was a mixed bag. The food was creative and well-executed, earning a high rating. However, the price was a significant issue, with a 20% gratuity automatically added for a party of two, which I found outrageous. Another major flaw was the atmosphere; the space was packed with too many tables, making it feel cramped and very loud. While the service was excellent, the overall value was diminished by the high cost and uncomfortable seating arrangement.
  • food8
  • service10
  • price2
  • tables3
  • noise level2
Price per Person
  • $100+
Visit Type
  • Food Exploration
Service Type
  • Dine-in
Shiny S.
Review date: 09/27/2025
3
Average Food, Rushed Service, Extra Charges
My experience at this restaurant was quite disappointing. The service felt very rushed, which detracted from the overall dining experience. While the food used good ingredients, it was ultimately very average for the price and lacked taste. I was also unhappy with the extra added gratuity and city mandate charges, which felt like an unwelcome surprise.
  • ingredients5
  • service2
  • food3
  • price3
Visit Type
  • Special Occasion
Group Type
  • Couple
Group Size
  • Couple
Service Type
  • Dine-in
Meal Type
  • Dinner
Kirsten S.
Review date: 09/17/2025
9
Wonderful Birthday Celebration at Third Cousin
My husband and I had a wonderful time celebrating my birthday at Third Cousin! The food was really delicious. We especially want to thank our server, Oceano, for the excellent service and thoughtful wine pairing suggestions.
  • food9
  • service10
  • wine pairing suggestions9
Price per Person
  • $61–$70
Visit Type
  • Special Occasion
Group Type
  • Friends
Group Size
  • Large Group
Service Type
  • Dine-in
Meal Type
  • Dinner
Wait Time
  • Immediate (0–5 min.)
Noise Level
  • Quiet
Mary K. J.
Review date: 09/17/2025
9
Outstanding Food and Service for Birthdays
A group of us celebrated September birthdays at 3rd Cousin and we’re so glad we did. The food was outstanding, and our server, Oceano, introduced us to some absolutely delicious wines and helped us with pairings. We had an amazing night and tried a lot of new things! We’re so lucky to have this place in the neighborhood.
  • food10
  • server Oceano10
  • wines9

What 3rd Cousin offers

Highlights

  • Great dessert
  • Great wine list

Planning

  • Accepts reservations
  • Dinner reservations recommended
  • Brunch reservations recommended

Crowd

  • LGBTQ+ friendly
  • Groups

Payments

  • Credit cards
  • Debit cards
  • NFC mobile payments

Children

  • High chairs

Popular for

  • Dinner

Offerings

  • Vegan options
  • Wine
  • Coffee
  • Beer
  • Small plates
  • Cocktails
  • Organic dishes
  • Vegetarian options
  • Alcohol

Dining options

  • Dinner
  • Seating
  • Table service
  • Dessert

Service Options

  • Outdoor seating
  • Dine-in

Parking

  • Paid street parking

Atmosphere

  • Romantic
  • Trendy

FAQs

Do you need reservations to dine at 3rd Cousin in Bernal Heights?
Yes, reservations are highly recommended for dinner at 3rd Cousin, especially if you’re planning a visit during peak times. You can also make reservations for brunch if you prefer. Planning ahead ensures you secure your table for a delightful dining experience.
At 3rd Cousin, you’ll find a diverse menu featuring small plates, organic dishes, and excellent vegan and vegetarian options to suit various preferences. They also offer a great wine list, cocktails, and coffee, ensuring you have plenty of choices for your meal and drinks.
3rd Cousin holds an overall score of 7. Its strengths lie in Service (7.7), Ambience (7.3), and Food (7.2), though Value (3.5) is a notable area for improvement.
While some find the weekday tasting menu offers reasonable value, many customers express concerns about the high price point and additional mandatory fees, impacting the overall perception of value.
The restaurant generally offers an inviting and cozy ambiance, often described as warm and intimate. However, some guests have noted it can feel like a crowded space with tables close together, leading to a louder noise level.
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Location
919 Cortland Ave, 94134 San Francisco
Opening hours
Monday
Closed
Tuesday – Thursday
5:00 PM – 8:30 PM
Friday – Saturday
5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Sunday
Closed